quotes tagged with 'advice'

"It's very simple. You've just got to give up a little of you for him. Don't make everything a game. Just late night in that little room upstairs. But take care of him. And make him feel important. And if you can do that, you'll have a happy and wonderful marriage...Like two out of every ten couples...But you'll be one of the two, baby..."

Author: Neil Simon, Source: Barefoot in the Park (Mother)Saved by wordlovergirl in relationship marriage husband advice mom 7 years ago[save this] [permalink]

At one point, Terman and heis fieldworkers go and visit everyone from the A and C groups and rate their personalities and manner. What they found is everything you would expect to find if you were comparing chidren raised in an atmosphere of natural growth. The As were juded to be much more alert, poised, attractive, and well dressed. In fact, the scores on those four dimensions are so diffrent as to make you think you are looking at two different species of humans. You aren't, of course. You're simply seeing the difference between those schooled by their families to present their best face to the world, and those denied that expereince.


The Terman results are deeply distressing. Let's not forget how highly gifted the C group was. Ifyou had met them at five or six year of age, you would have been overwhelmed by their curiosity and mental agility and sparkle. They were true outliers. The plain truth of the Terman study, however, is that in the end almost none of the genius children from the lowest social and economic class ended up making a name for themselves.


What did the Cs lack, though? Not something expensive or impossible to find; not something encoded in DNA or hardwired into the circuits of their brains. They lacked something that could have been given to them if we'd only known they needed it: a community around them that prepared them properly for the world.

Author: Malcom Gladwell, Source: Outliers, pp. 112-113Saved by mlsscaress in support development family advice community presence personality manner demeanor 11 years ago[save this] [permalink]

He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.

Author: Francis Bacon, Source: unknownSaved by bluesfreak in counsel relationship advice 11 years ago[save this] [permalink]

Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough

Author: ~Josh Billings, Source: ~UnknownSaved by ritu in wisdom advice 11 years ago[save this] [permalink]

My daughter is just eighteen months, so I can't tell her this now, but when she's old enough, I want Chloe to know something a female colleague once told me, which is good advice for young ladies everywhere. In fact, pound for pound, it's the best advice I've ever heard.


My colleague told me: "It took a long time, but I've finally figured it out. When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do."


That's it. So, here it is, for Chloe.

Author: Randy Pausch, Source: The Last Lecture - p.145-146Saved by mlsscaress in words behavior men advice simple romance actions 11 years ago[save this] [permalink]

Looking for the path to safety in the counsel of prophets makes sense to those with strong faith. When a prophet speaks, those with little faith may think that they hear only a wise man giving good advice. Then if his counsel seems comfortable and reasonable, squaring with what they want to do, they take it. If it does not, they either consider it faulty advice or they see their circumstances as justifying their being an exception to the counsel. Those without faith may think that they hear only men seeking to exert influence for some selfish motive.

Author: Henry B. Eyring, Source: http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=f318118dd536c0...Saved by richardkmiller in faith prophet counsel advice convenience 12 years ago[save this] [permalink]
BEWARE OF HE WHO TRIES TO POISON YOUR MIND AGAINST ANOTHER UNDER THE PRETENSE OF HELPING YOU. THE CHANCES ARE A THOUSAND TO ONE HE IS TRYING TO HELP HIMSELF.

South African poet and painter Breyten Breytenback tells of a Black man named Freedom who was the property of a one-legged slave owner in the days before the abolition of slavery. Whenever the owner bought a new pair of shoes, he gave the left one, which he couldn’t use, to Freedom. Eventually, wearing two left shoes deformed Freedom’s right foot, and he was permanently crippled by the "generosity" of his master. Don’t be fooled by people who attempt to further their own interests under the guise of helping you. Listen to advice from others, thank them for their interest, and make up your own mind about what is best. Follow their advice if it fits with your plan for your life, but don’t hesitate to discard it if it doesn’t. In all the world, there is only one individual who knows what is best for you, and that person is you.
Author: Napoleon Hill, Source: Thought for the Day - March 28, 2008Saved by bluesfreak in advice thinking 12 years ago[save this] [permalink]
You have brains in your head.
You have feet in your shoes.
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
You're on your own.
And you know what you know.
You are the guy who'll decide where to go.
Author: ~Dr. Suess, Source: ~UnknownSaved by ritu in wisdom advice individuality authenticity 12 years ago[save this] [permalink]
Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
Author: ~Lao Tzu, Source: ~UnknownSaved by ritu in wisdom advice laotzu 12 years ago[save this] [permalink]
Search the scriptures. Have questions; study them out; search in the scriptures for answers. Again, the Book of Mormon has good advice for us: “If [you] give place, that a seed may be planted in your heart” through diligent study of the word of God, the good seed “will begin to swell within your breasts” if you will not resist with unbelief. This good seed will “enlarge [your] soul” and “enlighten [your] understanding” (Alma 32:28).
Author: Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Source: The Power of a Personal Testimony, Liahona, Nov 2006, 37–39. h...Saved by mlsscaress in bookofmormon scriptures soul understanding advice enlightenment diligent unbelief resist 12 years ago[save this] [permalink]

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