But I donít see the use of meeting trouble halfway, do you, Marilla?† I think it would be better just to enjoy Mr. Allan while we have him.
A beautiful woman delights the eye; a wise woman, the understanding; a pure one, the soul
"There can be no understanding between the hand and the brain unless the heart acts as mediator." Brigitte Helm
If you come at me with your fists doubled, I think I can promise you that mine will double as fast as yours; but if you come to me and say, 'let us sit down and take counsel together, and, if we differ from each other, understand why it is that we differ, just what the points at issue are,' we will presently find that we are not so far apart after all, that the points on which we differ are few and the points on which we agree are many, and that if we only have the patience and the candor, and the desire to get together, we will get together.
People who can put themselves in the place of other people, who can understand the workings of their minds, need never worry what the future has in store for them.
If there is any one secret to success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own.
Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism, and it breeds sympathy, tolerance, and kindness. To know all is to forive all.
Experience should teach us to be most on our guard to protect liberty when the government's purposes are beneficial Ö the greatest dangers to liberty lurk in insidious encroachment by men of zeal, well meaning but without understanding.
Understanding is knowing what to do; wisdom is knowing what to do next; virtue is actually doing it.
Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding.
He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.
Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.